" Dear Miss Mona " (This is the Dear Abbey portion of the website)

"kinda" in Kentucky
What do I do if I "kinda" am attracted to someone? Should I continue dating?

Well, that is a set up question. 

 

First you have to "check in" with yourself regarding what it is you are looking for in a relationship?  And importantly do you like and love "you" in a relationship?

 

"Kinda" is a worm hole for self denial, passive behavior.  This requires some self "check in" ASAP before you go any further.  This is a formula for sabatoge not intimacy or love.

 

PS No Salesman energy trying to sell yourself the non-truth!!!

 

If you need more, check out Chapters 8 & 9 in Invisible Warfare about "Passive Agressive" behaviors and the question "What is love?"